nikah without marriage license

Narrated byAbu Hurayrah For a marriage to be valid, you need your parents permission. IF you have even a tiny grain-sized of fear of Allah in your heart, you will know the answer. because i cannot wait. You'll be back on this forum saying I told you so! To request an appointment, please fill this form. Naila Amin, 31, was a child bride in Pakistan at the age of 13; she now has a law named after her that bans the practice in New York state. Have that same bravery and tell them. Sahil, wa alaykum as-salam. Just don't. Tell your parents. me and the girl i wanna marry . I cannot tell you if your nikah is valid or not. Though ahsan tareeqa ye e a k wo b razi hon. About a year later, she returned to the U.S. and once her parents found out she had started a relationship there, they beat her. Both my beloved sisters be happy because Allah swt loves you thats why His made you aware of your actions otherwise He could have let you go astry but it is only out of His mercy Alhamdulillah!!! I love my Muslim boyfriend but he already has a wife. No Food distribution is allowed inside the building. Alcohol, on the other hand, is forbidden in Islam so alcoholic drinks are rarely (if ever) served at any Muslim event. The fact that Amin was still technically a ward of the foster care system in the U.S. saved her life. but witnesses was not my side. There is no secret marriage in Islam. His parents wont accept me because I am not Muslim. I want to ask question First of all I am very disappointed the fact that not one of you has made the same approach the Prophet saw or his companions did when someone came to them about a sin. Naaf, the answer to both questions is no. 4. Once she found out the bill had cleared unanimously, she called Cuomos office daily to urge him to sign it, leaving her with a feeling of anxiety. There is no such thing in Islam as secret marriage or marriage without witnesses. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to teach his companions to make istikhaarah in all things, just as he used to teach them soorahs from the Quraan. Forget about this match, brother. Furthermore, a large number of Sunni 'ulama have agreed that witnesses are not needed for a Nikah: We read in Neel al Autar: Agree on a dowry before the wedding day; and inform the Imam, if you want it to be written in the Islamic contract, or written as agreed upon. For a marriage to be valid certain conditions must be met: 1) Consent of both parties. 1. she divorced does she need permission from her mum? He only becomes halal for you once you have had your nikah. Let me tell you the all story. because such relationships are based on respect for one another. If they did, the marriage is VOID and they are living under SIN SIN SIN everyday while staying together under one roof. You should not be having intimate contact with your fiance. If these conditions are met, and the contract is done by means of the proposal and acceptance by the wali and the husband, then the marriage is done. After your marriage is completed, the marriage certificate may be applied for after 6 to 8 weeks from the Service Ontario Website. If even one of them is missing your marriage is void/null/invalid. No matter what excuses or rationales you try to apply, that's the bottom line. Yeah that's right and actually thats what we are worried for! Rasul(sws) said that 'a nikah without a wali is invalid, invalid, invalid'. valid?ccccc plzzz helllp soon.. zoya, see the answers already given, please. my cousin girl did nikkkah secretly waithout appointing a wali.boy arranged two witnuessesand they did nikah on phorne suecretly..is it hi can anyone advise me, im new to this site and ive put a question forward over a week ago which is still pending and not published yet, im wondering if i have submitted the comment correctly. Anyone considering nikkah without legal documentation according to their local government should be extremely cautious, especially if they are not in an Islamic country. There is little to no legal protection without a marriage license. Salaheddin Islamic Centre offers Marriage (Nikah) Services. If still they deny with no reason whatsoever, then an imam or qadhi or etc can act as her wali. It is mentioned that if a male and female are mature enough they can consume marriage and that is valid That time when I met her she told me whole her story , after that I explain her However, it does not make the Nikah without a marriage license invalid. i love a girl! Unchained At Last recently released a study that found that Citizenship and Immigration Services approved 8,868 petitions involving minors for spousal or fianc entry into the U.S. from 2007 to 2017. Your sins which are evident are : Disobeying Allah (SWT), breaching Islamic law, commited fornication of all forms. Le Directeur de l'tat civil du Qubec les verse BAnQ aprs 100 ans, permettant ainsi l'institution de les numriser et de les mettre en ligne, au rythme de leur arrive. The Marriage Certificate Application obtained with the Marriage License must be brought to the Imam couple days in advance of the Nikah day. saba, I deleted the remainder of your comment. For more, please see this category: Marriage Contract . Assalamu Alaikum If you have such big bravery like a lion to go and do a secret nikah behind your parents back. They were unaware of the legal requirements. Obtain a marriage license from the DuPage County Clerk's office within 60 days of the nikah date. Nikah without a marriage license? There are however Hadith reports in which he (s) encouraged marriage to virgins. u can always go for it even with out the consent of your 1st wife..however if it has been mentioned in your 1st nikkah that u can only go for 2nd after the concent of ur 1st wife the state's law applies. As of 2020, there were an estimated 285 million child brides in South Asia. She is currently working on a federal bill to have U.S. You cannot. A man is RESPONSIBLE for you - a secret nikah, is NOT valid, and is no different than the mutaa ect being practiced in the name of Islam in Egypt etc. There are only 150 guests allowed in the centre during the period of your booking, this will include all family members, photographers/video-graphers etc. Is mamlay me unkay against jana b gunah ni. If you have done nothing haram then why can't you get married properly? So If you are a sincere muslimah, then leave this man for good and start repenting sincerely and immidiately before DEATH comes knocking at your door. (Mutual consent of bride and groom, payment of mahr, consent of bride's wali, publicizing of the marriage with a waleemah). She later ran away and returned home. If you wish for specific advice, please log in and submit your question as a separate post making sure to add more detail. Plz plz advice me is our nikkah is valid ? You should search QC records. I have a question, With all thanks we are Muslim by birth. IslamicAnswers.com Editor. she should try to spend less time with him. The early scholars of Islam reported that it was a great blessing to conduct the marriage ceremony inside the mosque. Casey Swegman, the Forced Marriage Initiative project manager at the Tahirih Justice Center, said child marriage can have physical, economic, social and mental impacts, including depression and a loss of education. The Nikah is a Muslim marriage ceremony that officially allows a couple to be legally wed under Islamic law. A marriage license must be obtained from any City Hall in Ontario PRIOR to the date of the Nikkah. Yes. A woman and man may be married and divorced a 100 times, of course within the limits of the din, but the fact of the matter is that the relationship is halal! (serving North York, Richmond Hill, Newmarket), (serving Bensfort Bridge, Fraserville, Millbrook), Family Responsibility Office (FRO) & Default Hearings, Child Protection (Childrens Aid Society), Russell Alexander Collaborative Family Lawyers. Pray salat al istikhara for guidance insha'Allah. Please look out for yourself AND your families. So yes, they are free to marry anyone else. In this case, she would NOT need her mom's permission to marry. If youd like us to officiate your blessed marriage at the Ottawa Mosque, we suggest a $300 gift for the mosque for onsite service. No one will be able to advise you without knowing all the aspects- like whether or not he is Muslim, whether your family is accepting, etc. He believes in humanity and his that attitude inspired me and i fell in love with him. The Nikah ceremony can be considered a legal marriage in your state if you are located in New York or New Jersey. May Allah save us all from the fire of hell. Is a nikah allowed of a man and woman with 2 witnesses but no maulvi? It's always wrong to do the wrong thing, but it's never wrong to do the right thing. My question is that Is our relation haram? Imam Malik has said that for a Nikah the declaration is the condition not witnesses. i dont want to do nikkah to get physical with her! we never met in private and never did a haram thing except talking to each other on phone! - the consent of the bride's wali (some fiqhs have some variations on this in certain situations, eg if the bride has been married before). In fact, Allah tells us in the Quran to follow a bad deed with a good one. The Pew Research Center says asking for judicial consent or presenting parents permission are ways to bypass the minimum age to marry in many states. Good to do so but one must read the entire article so as not to fall within the ambit of "What will you believe in a part of the BOOK and reject a part?" The brides wali along with 2 chosen witnesses need to be present at the time of marriage and will be required to sign documentation. Written marriage contract (Aqd-Nikah or Nikah nama) signed by the bride and groom, and the two witnesses. What feels like a fix is a trick of shaytaan to put you in despair! Can't deny it, but if you want, Islam allows you to marry and can keep ALLAH as your witness. Food for thought. You can see the all available slots for ISNA Canada and process your booking online here. Answer is the Hanafi school of thought follow a different opinion to the other 3 imams. The event is sometimes broken up into two parts if the ceremony is held at the mosque, so sweets may be passed out immediately after to celebrate the new union, and dinner may be held at a different location. The Qur'an's reference to " a solemn contract" when it speaks of marriage goes beyond the concept of contract as in business ventures.For example, a wife is not obliged to cook for her husband but does so on the basis of his caring for her by going to work and giving her more than merely a monthly stipend (nafaqah). I am living in a non-Muslim country and want to get married. Please be advised that as of January 17th, 2019, all Nikah applicants at Salaheddin Islamic Centre will be required to sign forms certifying that they are not married at the time of application. Please register and submit your question as a separate post, and we will answer you in turn, Insha'Allah. U re right sis .. Due to media and other things we just dont want marriages n mutual decisions and we need a lisence to sex legly . Instead, you need to immediately have a correct nikah, with your family involved. So if couple marry by a properly read khutbah by an imam without the consent of the wali and/or without witnesses, is this living in a hara relationship. You no longer need to obtain a marriage license from nearby municipalities such as the Township Of Bonnechere Valley. True sunnah method is asking someone who is qualified to answer the question. - confirmation of the marriage contract being accepted. There was imam and one witness. That's the problem, but we both know there is no such thing as engagement in Islam and we both are NaMehram for each other. Your email address will not be published. You have power, I have none. You need to ask permission from her family and make the marriage public and not secret. What other solution is available? And allah knows best! What is the respect of women in islam I give her Dawat to become muslim Youll get a discount if you book both our Imam and our wedding venue! The fact that a marriage licence was issued, or that a couple has remarried, is not proof that a divorce was legal where it occurred, or that it would be recognized as legally valid in Canada. What is the case of a couple who want to marry by way of nikah yet the father of the prospective wife has NO cogent reason for his refusal to marry his daughter to a very upright man. No, It will be INVALID/VOID. You may want to consider booking our own banquet hall in a Muslim organization. The appeal court has confirmed that nikah marriages are legally "non-marriages", meaning spouses have no redress to the courts for a division of matrimonial assets such as the family home and. The city of Ottawa is open once again for marriage licenses, but on appointment basis. i understand where you are coming from but what would you advise the sister to do if she is having difficulty in preventing her from commiting zina with her boyfriend? Hope you get what is best for your in this life and the aakhirah! 3. I have actually came across a book of Maulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi Rahmatullah Alaihi, on the website http://darululoom-deoband.com/english/books/nikah.htm# if the female is in menses or period so she can set in nekha or not ???? Youre getting married, congratulations! And we don't find any muslim person over there I read nikkah my self and offer While it's often more common for a man to propose in many cultures, in Islam, the woman (or her family) can propose, as was the case with Khadijah, the first wife of the Prophet, peace, and blessings upon him, Imam Elturk says. You can take a look to this post too, inshaAllah, http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/marriage-without-telling-parents/, Written By Allah (SWT) said: "And do not marry your womenfolk to disbelieving men until they believe. Marriage License Document. Heres what you need to know to book your big day: 1. i mean with witnesses and families are present on the occasion, but ijab o qabul is done by bride and groom as of thr own at the occasion infront of everyone? And the reason why this is, because none of the people here are scholars or have ijazah to give comments or make an islamic judgement. The wali would normally be her father. This situation is exactly the type in which one needs to practice 'sabr/patience'. Naila Amin was 13 on her wedding day in Pakistan. or nikkah wdout witnesses ?? I feel Islam as a simple religion. Dowry (Mahr). Please dont judge my lesbian relationship. Were talking about that rare legislation that harms no one except child rapists it costs nothing. Any person may, on payment of the prescribed fee, if any, inspect at the office of the Union Council the record preserved under subsection (5) or obtain a copy of any entry therein. Did he say this is a major sin? Secret marriages are not valid in Islam. Go to your nearest city hall. Nope you are not married. Unfortunately, they neglected to get a marriage license and did not register the marriage in Ontario. The husband admits the paternity of the children from this marriage. Do not make a joke out of the deen. Alsalam Alaykum brothers and sisters, My partner and I (revert girl) want to do our nikah. I am not a scholar, but if you are saying that the bride's wali (her father) gave consent but was not physically present, as far as I know the nikah is valid. I am married and love a girl now. Nevertheless, marrying in secret is unIslamic. That may seem like a long wait, but we are down from the three month wait we used to have! Yes I'm muslim but girl she was not muslim but now she's a muslim but I did the way her family wants to do it but I didn't make nikah so I don't know what to do please let me know. For more information, please visit Service Ontarios Getting Married page. altaf, there is no secret marriage or marriage without witnesses in Islam. The requirements to have a Nikkah done through the Masjid are as follows: 1. And if one finds themself having to do nikah without witnesses, then there is more than likely something hugely immoral about the whole thing. Ask yourselves this, would you go to a website and ask people medical questions about something serious who are not doctors or those who have no qualifications in medicine? About 59 percent of girls are married before the age of 18 in Bangladesh, 27 percent in India and 18 percent in Pakistan, according to data from Girls Not Brides. However, if the Nikah was done at home without an Imam and a marriage license than the marriage was just performed for traditional reasons as an engagement. For the City of Oshawa, please call 905-436-3311 and ask for the marriage licensing office. Nikah - Marriage, If both the man and woman are mature, they can perform their own nikah. Disclaimer: These are the ICC hall rental fees, and do not include the Imam fees. Cuz wali ka koi haq ni banta .. ye recommended tu ho sakta hai lekin obligation kabhi b ni a. Nikah ka right sirf krnay walay ka hota a. Can you suggerst me how to confirm. Mutual agreement to marry between the bride and groom (Ijab-wa-Qubul). Any suggestions would be appreciated! She is an independent reporter with BridgeDetroit and was previously a breaking news reporter at the Detroit Free Press. you guys are screwed up. Here's one hadith- Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: There is no marriage except with a wali and two witnesses of good character.. A Nikah generally takes place in a mosque, a rented venue, or at home. How would you feel? It actually depends on which school of thought you are following. * Fatawa Qadhi Khan Volume 1 page 153,Kitab al Nikah. L'enregistrement des naissances, des mariages et des dcs relve de la juridiction provinciale et territoriale. Shortly after, Amin went to New York state Assemblyman Philip Ramos office in Brentwood on Long Island and told him about being a former child bride. There is scholarly support for the idea that if a woman has divorced, she may represent her own interests without a wali if she marries again. The fact of the matter is that a mature couple do not need the consent or presence of a wali as this creates an unnecessary burden on the couple who want to enter into nikah but face an impediment from certain persons. She is talking on phone with me as well I before our parents permissions. If you approach court marriage then you don't need a marriage license and you'll be legally married. I cant see registration option ? Ask for a marriage license. Any set-up and take down of decorations will have to take place within your time slot. we both get on very well and have understood to be together but find it impossible to avoid interaction with each other (talking, phone calls, meeting up).we have tried many times but it does not work hence the thought of doing a secret nikah between ourselves to stop ourselves from commiting any sin. (You will have to provide necessary identification and pay a fee for the application). Therefore, take heed and do everything halal insha'Allah. When you cannot change a situation, the Quran and Sunnah tell us to be patient. JazakumAllau khair for all the sincere advice. Nikah means marriage and halala means to make something halal, or permissible. Yasmin, the problem is not the witnesses - any two adult Muslims can act as witnesses - but the lack of a wali. Take responsibility for your own behavior and do not say, "we can't stop". It is not acceptable to be physically close to your boyfriend before marriage. Views : Presence of Wali is a must for girl, otherwise such marriage is not recognized in Islam unless Wali refuses the marriage for non-Islamic reason. We kept our marriage Islamically simple which was so refreshing. Allah(swt) states in Surah Al Baqarah 2:183: O ye who believe! Both spouses were eligible to be married when they took part in the religious ceremony, the marriage had been undertaken in good faith. - the consent of both bride and groom. Please make sure your guests are told about masjid etiquettes and the COVID-19 policy (as listed below) before they arrive. There is no secret marriage in Islam. In modern times, the marriage contract is signed in the presence of an Islamic judge, imam, or trusted community elder who is familiar with Islamic law. Let your children also marry, after advices to the contrary, to a certain person and learn from their mistakes. How can I be a better Muslim? Can he have his mates/younger brother as a witness? and an irregular marriage imposes certain rights and obligations on both contracting parties. Muhammad Waseem spoken to relatives and Imams for support) but they still will not agree, then you must both be patient by keeping away from each other until such a time comes that they do agree. You will also receive a Marriage Certificate 2. Can i marry a women more older then me. My Istikhara result was ambiguousany thoughts? If you have no living male relatives who are Muslim, then an imam can be approached to act as your wali so that a marriage proposal can be considered. Its not over til the Trumpet is Blown Sin and Repentance in Islam, The Sin of Fornication and Adultery Part 1, The Sin of Adultery and Fornication Part 2, The Sin of Adultery and Fornication Part 3, I saw Prophets Moosa, Muhammad and Esaah (peace be upon them all) in my dream. nikah without witnesses randers marriage irregular but not void Which she accept Because she don't have any more relative accept her Hindu mother If none of these walis are present, then the shar'i judge should act as wali for her marriage, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "If they dispute, then the ruler is the guardian of the one who has no guardian.". Ive been surviving for the past 31 years, she said. Secret marriages are not advised. Males do not need anyone's permission to marry. Muhammad1982, Your unique situation, whatever it may be, does not give you a pass to have nikkah without witnesses, nikkah requireis witnesses otherwise it is no good. i took nikah naama attested from union council . And when I say wali, I mean her rightful wali like her dad. Usually -in Morocco- the two witnesses do write down the 'aqd an-Nikah so they write down all the conditions made by the two parties and the amount of the mahr. Even i asked my wife that i want Nikah with her, but does not agree. For registration of marriages under this Ordinance, the Union Council shall grant licenses to one or more persons, to be called Nikah Registrars, but in no case shall more than one Nikah Registrar be licensed for any one Ward. I want to ask with two witnesses, Imam and maher will the nikah be valid in certain sense? plzzz help sirr. Choosing to have an unrecognized Islamic nikah only without having a legally binding civil marriage is the same as having a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. Regarding seating, couples often prefer to have guests at the front of the main hall so they can face them during the Nikah. If you require further advice, please submit a post rather than a comment. An imam breaks down the fundamentals couples who are considering or currently planning a Nikah need to know. Her father applied to legalize the marriage and for an American spousal visa so that Tariq could become a U.S. citizen. Making the relationship known is part of what differentiates it from an illicit affair. You can't "recognize" each other as married and believe that's all that counts. if parents take our sharai- right of marrying by choice then they are wrong instead of us who desperately want to marry. They are not agree now because I am just 21. I want to ask a question can anyone help plzz? There is no kaffarah. Salaheddin Islamic Centre offers Marriage (Nikah) Services. Its also wise to have a small table nearby to use for signing the marriage document, as well as for sweets to pass out immediately after the ceremony. If you are not legally married in Islam then you are mahrem for each other and any intimacy between you is haram. If there are no paternal uncles then it passes to the sons of the paternal uncles (cousins). Do both the bride and groom have to agree to get married or can someone agree on the brides behalf? but, iam not sure about so please tell me what should i do? Please do NOT deceive and lie to yourself and make your akhirah bad for yourself for a few moments of guilty pleasure of this brief worldly life ! Nikah halala (Urdu: ), also known as tahleel marriage, is a practice in which a woman, after being divorced by triple talaq, marries another man, consummates the marriage, and gets divorced again in order to be able to remarry her former husband. as far as I have heard, one can have Allah as a witness if no human witness is available or ready to accept ur relationship. ans as soon as possible you should disclose relation in the front of people. As for the culture of Bf and Gf, i am not sure on this but, how can you get into a halal relationship (Nikah) when its initiation has been a haram one? Allah? so points are According to Section 5 of the Muslim Family Laws Ordinance, 1961, every marriage solemnized under Muslim Law shall be registered following the provisions of this Ordinance. at a later date (which many do) but not registering it at all is just not a good idea. OTHERWISE, IF THE girl NEVER BEEN MARRIED , THEN NEED PERMISSION FROM HER GUARDIAN, I.E. because its not secret my family knows and her sis too.. The requirements to have a Nikah done through the Masjid are as follows: Marriage License Document. I need some urgent help from an aalim or a mufti. For example, a person urinated in a masjid, how did the Prophet saw react?? For more information on how to obtain a marriage license please visit: https://ottawa.ca/en/residents/laws-licences-and-permits/marriages-deaths-and-oaths, COVID UPDATE (as of July 17): - and we will answer in turn, Insha'Allah. Pls help. Once both people decide they want to move forward and make it official, the Nikah ceremony can take place. Log in, Join our e-mail list for regular site news and updates, All Rights Reserved for Islam Q&A 1997-2023. In order to marry, you need permission of your Wali, two witnesses over the Nikah, and most importantly, Nikah needs to be done - by a Qaadhi/Imam. I'm sorry but the rules do not change from person to person, unless you do not have a wali (father/guardian figure) and you have such unique circumstances then seek the help of a local imam. And if there were no wali no witnesses and two people accepted each other as husbnd and wife in terms of nikah so if this nikah is not valid than can the girl do a real nikahwith someone else What we will do then if our parents are not ready for our marraige, They just not accept our choice but even they don't want us to marry whole life? What do you mean by 'nikah on message'? The "rukhsati" is irrelevant, though it always seemed strange to me that a couple would get married and then not live together. No wonder divorce rate is high now a days, people commit to a pious act like nikah with weird intentions then don't get along or cheat on one another with some one else who seems to be more charming. The age difference between you is too extreme. Make bookings for either Nikah services or to use the facility (or both) by calling 416-264-3900. My parents were present and nobody objected during the wedding. Roja, this doesn't make sense to me and doesn't sound like any kind of nikah. Did he shun the person? But the better way for brides to marry with the willing of parents. But sister, you have to Trust, trust, trust in Allah (SWT). to the Imam. (Both you and your wife/husband to be). When Cuomo finally signed the bill, making New York the sixth state to ban child marriage, Amin said it felt "almost surreal, a very happy feeling.". Then when your kids are old enough, tell them what you did and why. How does nikkah work if both do not have a wali? I appreciate it alot. She cannot bear you children, and within ten or twenty years at the most she will be elderly and infirm, while you will be in the prime of your life. For the man its perfect he gets to use the woman and have no responsibility too! Naila Amin protesting child marriage with Unchained At Last at Rutgers University in New Brunswick, N.J., in 2018. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Your so called " husband" , seems to have a noble character , but because he is committing high treason against his Creator ( ALLAH ( SWT) ), by rejecting Him, or by associating partners to Him, then no matter how good a character he has or how much of service he renders to others, it will not be valid in the sight of Allah (SWT) because the High Treason the Kufr and Shirk, by far, exceed all limits of disobedience, for which there can be no bail or parole.

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